That awkward moment when he totally catches you checking out that other guy*cant watch*
And not just when you read about celebs,I’m talking real people,in real life. The other day, a friend told me a funny story. She was having lunch with her husband when they ran into a tall, muscular hottie that she knew from school. She introduced the guys, and promptly turned incredibly red with embarrassment.She swears it’s because she was eating with her fingers,but her husband thought she was flustered because she had a big old crush on Mr. Muscles,Lol and he wouldn’t let her hear the end of it (in a lighthearted way, he wasn’t really mad). Knowing my crazy-in-a-good-way friend--I’m not sure I completely believe she was embarrassed about eating with her fingers in a restaurant.
But hey, we’ve all been there. We’re only human and sometimes, other guys are very charming. Or they just smell really good. As long as it doesn’t go any further than a harmless crush and maybe a bit of innocent flirtation, I see no problem with it.
Back in the days(my first relationship),I could always tell when my boyfriend had a crush on another girl. He once gave a girl we had just met a drink--that I’d given him!--because she was thirsty. Hello obvious! And to be fair, he definitely noticed that his room mate’s pink lips made me swoon just a bit. Sure,it's kind of annoying to know about, but I think that in a solid relationship (like my friend and her husband have) it's something you can just laugh off. But maybe you disagree and think crushes are totally off limits in a relationship. Tell me your thoughts in the comments.
Do you have a current crush on someone other than your man? Is it totally obvious to everyone, including your BF? Do you get mad if you know your guy is just a little into another girl?
Over to you,Hehehe
5 comments:
I think "crush" is taking it a bit far-it's only a hop skip and a jump from there to fantasizing, and if you're in a relationship, that's tricky ground, especially if it's one of his friends or someone you both see on a daily basis. But I'll admit that he has certain friends that at the very least I want to find me attractive!;)
Well put, I like that!
I think it is perfectly natural to be attracted to other people, it's what you do with those feelings.
That's a bit worrisome. Have I been out and about and saw a guy that I found attractive? Yes. But there's no one in my life that I have crushes on. It never goes beyond thinking a person is cute. To have a crush on someone says there's something more emotional there. But I'm also the type of person that doesn't flirt with people when I'm in a relationship. It's very disrespectful.
I dont know...i think I would be a little bit hurt if my boyfriend had a legit crush on a woman he knew in real life. A strong part of my heart belongs to Ryan Gosling and he knows that but I'm pretty sure he would also be a little bit hurt (and potentially concerned) if I *liked* someone else. Sounds like trouble brewing to me.
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