3 life lessons from LINGERIE

Here at the Sexy Little Things,We believe Lingerie is more than just bras and panties. No other article of clothing holds the symbolism and the significance of lingerie. Whether it's your first bra or something else entirely...lingerie touches almost every aspect of our lives. Here are 3 life lessons I believe we can learn from lingerie.

1) You can't fake a good fit. You know when your bra fits and you know when it doesn't. It doesn't matter how many adjustments you make or what the sales lady tells you...you just know. The same is true of life. Friends, Relationships, Jobs...they either fit or they don't. And when it doesn't fit, don't force it. Otherwise (much like an ill-fitting bra) you'll wind up in a lot of pain and discomfort that you could have avoided.

2) Treat what you love with care. By now, you've probably heard that your lingerie should always be washed by hand and hung to dry...never subjected to the vagaries of a machine washer and dryer. Yes, it takes a little more time (and we all know how precious that is) but the benefit is that you'll have an undergarment that lasts for years...all because you took proper care of it. The same is true for life. The people we value should be treated with care. Yes, it'll take more time, but it's worth it for the relationships that truly matter.

3) You are your own best reason. Lingerie isn't just for your significant other. The very best reason to buy beautiful lingerie (whatever beautiful means to you) is because of how it makes you feel. You deserve to feel good and any lingerie that helps with that is worth the price tag...no matter how big or how small. By the same token, you don't have to wait for the right person to show up before you start taking care of yourself. You are your own best reason for living the life you want.

What's a life lesson you've learned from lingerie? I'd love to hear it in the comments!

Halloween party in Abuja

Event-Halloween party

Date-29th October 2011

Venue-Aramis Lounge Abuja

Pleasure Chest supplied all the costumes*smiles*

 

FUN FUN FUN ALL THE WAY

Bad side-Vampires,Devils,Witches hmmmmmmmmm

Good side-Leopards,Sailors,Fairies,Angels wowwwww

10 pieces of lingerie every woman must own.

Lingerie is a fact of life but it isn't a fact that shopping for it has to be a chore. Here are 10 lingerie essentials every woman needs in her lingerie drawer.  These are the basics that will give you a good foundation for every piece in your closet, Anytime of the year,they're trend proof, flexible, and absolute time savers so if you've ever felt like you just didn't have the right thing to wear under your clothes, then this is the article for you!

Bras

T-shirt Bra--As the name suggests, t-shirt bras are perfect for wearing under anything tight, close-fitting, or thin because the bra is constructed of one, seamless piece, you won't end up with those annoying boob-shaped lines under your clothes.  In addition, the molded cups make them great for evening and shaping the breasts without adding padding or bulk.

Nude Bra--When you want to wear light or white-colored clothing, a nude bra is a wardrobe essential. Many people equate nude with one beige or tan shade, but, in reality, nude is whatever matches your skintone.It is the best thing out there at the moment and a great option for most women.

Convertible Bra--If you are wearing something with no sleeve or straps,you need a convertible bra.  The best convertible bras are able to accommodate strapless, halter, and low-back styles with some brands even having crisscross or one shoulder options. To maximize flexibility, also look for a bra with a deep, plunging front, perfect for v-necks and scoopnecks.





Panties

Seamless Knickers--When it comes to panties, the default style is seamless.  No matter if you like briefs or boyshorts, thongs or bikinis...seamless is the way to go.  Believe me, nothing disrupts your look like visible panty lines.






Hosiery

Sheer Pantyhose--An office staple, sheer pantyhose are as important now as they were 30 years ago.  For pantyhose that are durable, available in a range of shades, and inexpensive too, you can't go wrong with them.

Fishnet Tights--Ah, fishnets...how do I love thee?  Let me count the ways.  Always chic, always trendy, and always fashionable, fishnets are the best way to add a bit of spice to your regular, everyday wardrobe.  The most important thing to remember with fishnets is the smaller the mesh, the better.

Opaque Black Tights--Perfect for the cold days because they keep your legs warm.

Garter Belt & Stockings--I put these two items together because you really can't have one without the other.  A garter belt and stockings is the classic splurge...one that'll make you feel and look as sexy as you already are.







Shapewear

Shaping Slip--It smoothes, it firms, and it shapes giving you the picture perfect hourglass figure with no trouble at all.






Sleepwear

Robe--We're rounding out the list with this lovely group of lingerie.A robe is the sort of thing that every woman needs...you can wear it in the house or use to cover that sexy lingerie in front of a stranger/an intruder.A good robe is soft, simple, and flattering.






While we're finished talking about the 10 pieces of lingerie every woman needs in her lingerie  drawer, there is one more lingerie-related product i highly recommend to my readers to keep their purchases in like-new condition...a sturdy spacious lingerie wash bag.

A must have for anyone who owns, wears and washes any delicate garments in the washing machine.Mesh bag that is wash and dry machine safe. Insert the garment into the bag and throw into the wash. Contents are safe in the bag and they stay protected. Also great for travel to keep delicates separated.

 

 I hope this article helps you with your lingerie purchases, both now and in the future.  If you'd like more personalized advice, you can always send me an email (info@pleasurechest.com.ng) so we can discuss your lingerie needs in greater detail. Lingerie is my life, and I'd be absolutely delighted to talk with you.

7 deadly sins of Lingerie

Sexy Little Thing has a sermon for you today and we're talking about the 7 Deadly Sins of Lingerie.  Don't worry about it if you see yourself in one or two of these; I've done all of them at one time or another. but if you feel the need to make a confession (or just want moral support), you can always drop me a line at info@sexylittlething.com.ng

Lust
Drooling over something just because you saw a model wearing it in a magazine ad and then buying that something because your subconscious whispered that it'll make you look like the model.  No, sweetie, it won't.  If you have real boobs, you'll need a real bra...not a bralette.

Pride
Buying lingerie in the size you used to be.  Here's the deal--if you lose weight, gain weight, get pregnant, have a baby, stop breastfeeding, or do anything else that changes the way your boobies fit in your bras then you need to have a professional refitting.  The same rule applies to panties.  Don't buy knickers in the size you wish you were; buy them in the size you actually are.  Your bum (and the rest of your bits) will thank you.

Sloth
Not taking care of your lingerie.  How often have we heard the handwashing rule?  The no dryer rule?  The no wringing rule?  Plain and simple--your lingerie will look better and last longer if you take care of it.  That means your knickers should never touch the inside of a machine washer and/or dryer.  And if you really want to get hardcore about lingerie care, then invest in quality products like specialty washes and cotton hosiery gloves. I promise you'll notice the difference.

Envy
Being jealous of someone else's lingerie (this also includes being jealous of their figure).The 21st century has a bigger variety of sizes, a wider range of colors, and better quality fabrics than any other time in the past 100 years.  There is no reason whatsoever to wear lingerie that doesn't make you look and feel like a goddess.

Gluttony
Buying anything and everything...especially if it's on sale  or cheap. All together now...it's not a deal if you never wear it. There are plenty of good, inexpensive bras out there that will amortize to thousands per wear if taken care of properly.

Wrath
Hating on other people's lingerie.  Yes, I know g-strings aren't your thing.  Yes, I know you prefer stockings over pantyhose but there is no reason to call people who wear those items by bad names or to create entire web forums, discussion boards, and blogs dedicated to badmouthing those people.

Greed
Buying lingerie out of your price range, even if you have to borrow to get it.  Yes, I too can be seduced by the beauty of a perfect pair of high waist, chantilly lace, hand embroidered panties...but that doesn't mean they're worth a month of ramen dinners, much less going into debt over.  If that lingerie keeps calling your name, set up a separate bank account, and then treat yourself after you sock away enough money to pay for it in cash.

How have you sinned lately?   Why don't you share it in the comments

What makes someone a Lingerie expert?

Last month,I was talking to a lady about lingerie and she said to me "For someone who isn't a lingerie expert, you sure know a lot about lingerie."

Now, I wasn't offended by her comment. I've always been completely open and honest about the fact that I've never worked for a lingerie boutique, a lingerie brand, or a lingerie designer. I'm proud of being one of the very few lingerie bloggers out there who doesn't come from a fashion, media background. I have been  talking about lingerie since i started the business from an everyday woman's point of view...not from the industry point of view.

I don't believe working in a lingerie boutique is enough in and of itself to make one a lingerie expert. I've had a bra fitting at one of the most famous lingerie boutiques in London and was left unimpressed. And I'm sure we've all had the experience of visiting a lingerie boutique and realizing the staff knew very little about the merchandise (which, if you're a boutique owner reading this, is really not okay).

I don't believe working for a lingerie brand necessarily makes you a lingerie expert either.You'll learn that particular brand's products inside and out, but how much of your knowledge is generalizable to other brands? Not to mention the inherent conflict of interest in working for one brand--you're automatically inclined to think their products are best for everyone...when that may not be the case.

And, to bring things a little bit closer to home, I don't believe being a writer or an editor (yes, even a writer or editor of a lingerie publication) automatically makes you an expert. As I mentioned in this article,one of the lesser-known secrets of the lingerie industry (and of fashion in general) is that the brand with the biggest PR team wins. Which means there is a lot of amazing lingerie we never, ever hear about.

I guess what I'm asking is the same question from the title, "What makes someone a lingerie expert?" I don't think you have to be an "expert" to know what fits and flatters your body, or to know what you like and don't like. And you certainly don't need to live in a fashion capital or have a huge lingerie budget to be an expert...though I think that's the message we get from the media sometimes.

I've said a lot about what I don't think so far...so here's what I do think. I think every woman has the ability and the capacity to become a lingerie expert, even if you're just a lingerie expert for yourself. Being passionate about lingerie, being curious about lingerie, being well-informed about lingerie, and being willing to make a lingerie mistake or two...that's what makes you an expert (and a lingerie addict too, for that matter). It's not necessarily about being told what to wear or telling others what to wear, it's about caring enough to make sure you are wearing the best possible undies you can. That your lingerie fits, flatters, and makes you feel like the amazing woman you already are.

I know this is a controversial position. I'm basically saying that everyone's a lingerie expert...or that no one's a lingerie expert but  I've been turning this question over for awhile, and I'm really interested in what other people have to say. So what do you think, dear readers? What makes someone a lingerie expert? Can we all be lingerie experts? Are lingerie experts helpful at all?
Share your thoughts in the comments below. I read every single one of them.