Role Playing 2

Hello all, I apologize for not having blogged in a while,after my first post on role playing,i got a lot of emails asking me to do a post on it explaining step by step so i thought to share some tips.Let's go!

If you missed the first post,check this link:- http://pleasurechestng.blogspot.com/2013/02/happy-valentines-day-ladies.html



So today,we are starting by explaining what role play means.It means dressing up to imitate a particular character,We all did this as kids right?For all of you that didn't get serious with it then Hmmmmm its BACK!



If you've never indulged in role playing sex or anything close to this before, then you may think the whole game is just hilarious. And extremely stupid but like it goes with everything else, you never know what you’re missing until you try it! Wearing costumes while having sex may make you feel uneasy and uncomfortable, but the more you feel the part, the more the fun for both of you.

There are many delightful ways to bring role playing and fantasy games into your bedroom,One form of role playing is to have both of you act out one another's secret fantasies. Maintaining a non-judgmental attitude toward whatever your partner reveals is important. Only then can you create an atmosphere of safety and trust that allows for a deepening of your erotic bond.

For example, if you fantasize about being kidnapped and ravished by a pirate, you might ask your partner to don an eye patch and a gold ear ring, sweep you up into his arms, carry you to bed and secure your wrists to the bedpost while he calls you his "wench" and has his way with you.
Or, perhaps you have a fantasy about directing or starring in an X-rated film. As the director, you may wish to instruct your lover on how to strip for the camera, how to model sexy lingerie, how to play with sex toys, recite an erotic poem, sing a suggestive song or perform a sensual dance.
You and your partner also can role-play yourselves at a different age or in a different setting than your bedroom. For instance, you might pretend to be a couple of lusty adolescents about to make love for the first time in a parked car.

Sexual role play isn't unheard of, and most of us may even have indulged in it without actually realizing it.Even the most passionate sex can run out of passion and even the most intimate acts of sexual ecstasy can run out of steam after a while.It’s at times like these when sexual role play and costumes can save your bedroom woes, and help you reignite the passion in the sack.Even the happiest couples in love can suffer from a drought in their sex lives.
You could be madly in love with your partner, but quite frankly, emotional love and mad, sexual passion are two completely different things.You could actually be in love with someone and yet, lust about another person.

Sexual role play cannot be learnt from a book or from someone else’s mouth, it has to be experienced. And you’ll have to understand what turns you and your partner on better than the other role playing characters. But once you’re comfortable with the act of sexual role play and costumes, sex can become as exciting as your first night together, because, literally speaking, the person you’re having sex with is, a totally different character!


For beginners, you could just play along without the costumes, and opt for roles that wouldn't make you uncomfortable. Choose to be a delivery girl instead of a stripper, or opt to be the plumber instead of a doctor.After you've done it a few times, you can move ahead with more adventurous role playing sex games that both of you will be eager to explore.

Learning how to role play can be exposing and awkward at times, but with time, you would learn to enjoy yourself and be comfortable with your own body, even if it’s a bit on the fatter or skinny side. Be prepared to experience something new, and enjoy yourself.

Choosing your characters to role play

Choose a character that has always enticed or motivated you, something that gives you a boost of sexual adrenalin, and let your partner choose one that suits them. But remember, the characters that both of you choose should be able to blend with each other. A few of the all time favorite role playing sex characters that are preferred over the others all across the world include these.

Teacher – Student

Slave – Master

Plumber- Housewife

Photographer – Model

Escort – Client

Doctor – Nurse

Stripper – Client

Fireman – Trapped person

These are just a few of the different characters that you could opt to play, and if you have the perfect costumes to go with it, you could guarantee yourself a totally wild night of role playing sex.



The rules of role playing sex

Knowing how to role play in the game is the most important part. Enjoy the game, even if your lover decides to dress up like the Giant Horny Bird or as the Fat Bastard from Austin Powers, just go with the game. You’re doing this to make sex a lot better for the both of you, so avoid judgment, unless of course, your partner’s costume or behavior grosses you out.



Sometimes it’s easy to get caught up in role playing sex, and overdo it once in a while, so if anything gets boring or uncomfortable, just cut it out. Learn to have good sexy conversations to turn each other on.

And most importantly, before you even think of shedding your clothes, shed your inhibitions! Or you wouldn't be able to pull off something that can excite the both of you.
Once you’re comfortable with the theme of your role playing sex game, learn to dress the part. Accessorize, use the right kind of perfume, dress well and behave the same way. A few minutes into the game and you would be aroused a lot more than you would have ever thought. So play this game with the right spirit and interest and you’d flood the sheets before you’re done!



Let me share 2 or 3 i have in my head now. Lol

1. The working girl. The working girl role-play scenario takes on many forms but the basic idea behind it is that you need to earn money from your man by doing exactly what he wants. This could take the form of being his personal stripper, escort or even maid.

So he gets to tell you what to do but you get to charge him for it. He needs to start by telling you what to wear for your appointment with him. It could be a sexy dress, lingerie or nothing at all. Remember, it's his choice, but you get to charge him for it.

You can meet him at home or if you want to start somewhere more public, try meeting him at a classy bar. When you meet, remind him that you are working but if he is willing to pay he can get some "extra special" attention.

You can try acting a female stripper,you dance,give him lap dance and strip and he is NOT allowed to touch you.Company Policy(LOL)You can break the rule,charge him extra to touch you at least no one is watching.
You can also be a call girl,he is NOT allowed to kiss you,that will drive him crazy,he wants anal,he will pay extra as that wasn't part of the agreement.Its fun.Hehehe

2. Naked maid. The naked maid is a role-playing idea where you are going to be in a submissive position, while your man is going to be watching and directing you during it. If your man has voyeuristic or domination fantasies, then he will love this one. And if you love the idea of being watched by someone, then you will love it too.
All you are going to be doing is cleaning your house/apartment but ... you're going to do it while naked. The whole time, your man will be directing you around the house/apartment telling you what to scrub and clean.

Maybe he feels that the floor needs more attention and wants you to get down on your hands and knees to clean it properly or perhaps he'd like to see you working with a feather duster. Whatever it is, it's up to him to decide.
You don't necessarily need to be fully naked for this role-play idea, you can also do it wearing lingerie or even a maids costume. And don't forget to switch roles too!

3. Cop and criminal. This next role-play idea is very fun if you like the idea of dishing out some punishment or being the one on the receiving end of some punishment from your man. If you want to be the one dishing out the punishment, then obviously, you're going to be the cop and the person who wants to be on the receiving end is going be the criminal.

If you are the cop, then you need to start off the fantasy by catching your man in the act of doing something naughty, bold or even criminal. Then you need to decide what to do to him for punishment...

Tie him up and spank him?
Strip him naked?
Be the corrupt cop who demands favors from him in return for freedom?


These are just a few ideas of what you can do with your man to punish him but feel free to experiment with other ideas of your own. You might also like the idea of trying out restraints/handcuffs to take this role play to the next level.

You can also role play with your profession.Are you a lawyer?how about playing with your partner like he is a client that doesn't have enough money to pay for your services and you are thinking he or she can pay in kind.

Are you a doctor/nurse hmmmm that is the best part of the job.Your partner becomes your patient.YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Are you a photographer?do you do photo shoot for models well you got a model in your partner now.DO YOUR THING.


That will be all this week,drop your questions the usual way,comment on this post or email info@pleasurechest.com.ng



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